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Agapé is a relationship wellness platform that gives couples a new way to say, "I love you!"
Daily Agapé is our SMS-based service which texts couples a fun, enriching question every day and shares their responses with each other; earning them points for every response that can be used as entries into our monthly giveaways!
Love is a very multidimensional construct, which is why the Ancient Greeks were wise enough to describe it using several words. One of which is Agapé, which represents an unconditional, sacrificial love. Agapé is selfless love put into action. The highest form of love.
Fun Fact: In English speaking countries Agapé is pronounced "ah-gah-pay" but if you go to Greece it's pronounced "Ah-gah-pee". It's unclear why the pronunciation changed, but we went with "ah-gah-pay" hence the accent on the e!
We use machine learning algorithms to personalize the questions we send to you, which will only get better over time. We send a huge range of questions, from reminiscing about why you fell in love to funny prompts like what’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done together. We even send spicy questions if you opt in! Agapé is designed to be fun.
Relationship wellness is the process of actively shifting your mindset, making choices, and pursuing activities to enrich your relationships.
A common misconception is that relationship wellness is best suited for couples who are experiencing some sort of dysfunction. But just like the gym isn't exclusive to individuals who are out of shape, relationship wellness should not be limited to couples who have relationship issues.
All couples should be actively practicing relationship wellness. Agapé makes that both easy AND fun.
Yes! Instead of receiving connect questions, where your responses are shared with your partner, you will receive reflect questions. Reflect questions give you personalized feedback once you respond and focus on self discovery and growth. You can sign up for this version here.
Yes! In this version of Agapé you will receive reflect questions, which will send you personalized feedback once you respond. These questions will focus on self discovery and growth. You can sign up for this version here.
Agapé is free to download and free to use. However, there are premium features that you can access with a subscription.
We offer a free trial of all premium features, with no credit card required. So trying Agapé is completely risk free!
Don't worry, Agapé is not one of those freemium apps that hides all their features behind a paywall. You can benefit from Agapé even if you can't afford to support us financially.
No. Agapé isn’t therapy. Couples therapy is focused on solving a problem. Agapé is focused on creating a fun way to spark meaningful conversation.
Often times that conversation makes you smile. Occasionally you may even cry tears of joy. And sometimes it even solves problems! But the primary goal is to create a fun way to spark meaningful conversation, which is fundamentally different than couples therapy.
Agapé values your privacy. Our app and web services use bank-level 128 bit encryption to securely transmit data between your device and our servers. Customer data stored in our databases is logically isolated and encrypted. To further keep your personal data safe, we employ extensive security measures to minimize access.
Our Point Based Rewards System is designed to encourage relationship strengthening behaviors. So the more you engage with Agapé the more points you earn.
Currently, you earn points for the length of your responses and how quickly you respond to the daily questions. You also get bonuses for how often you respond. For example, if you respond 7 days in a row that's an extra 10 points!
100 points can be redeemed as 1 entry into our monthly giveaways. The winner is randomly selected from the available entries.
No purchase necessary to win. A purchase will not improve your chances of winning. See terms and conditions for more details.
All of our questions are vetted by our Chief Research Officer, Ronald Rogge PhD. Ron has been researching romantic relationships for over 20 years, currently serving as a professor of clinical psychology at the prestigious University of Rochester.
Please view his work here.
What is Agapé?
Agapé is a relationship wellness platform that gives couples a new way to say, "I love you!"
Daily Agapé is our SMS-based service which texts couples a fun, enriching question every day and shares their responses with each other; earning them points for every response that can be used as entries into our monthly giveaways!
What does "Agapé" mean?
Love is a very multidimensional construct, which is why the Ancient Greeks were wise enough to describe it using several words.
One of which is Agapé, which represents an unconditional, sacrificial love. Agapé is selfless love put into action. The highest form of love.
Fun Fact: In English speaking countries Agapé is pronounced "ah-gah-pay" but if you go to Greece it's pronounced "Ah-gah-pee". It's unclear why the pronunciation changed, but we went with "ah-gah-pay" hence the accent on the e!
What types of questions will be asked?
We use machine learning algorithms to personalize the questions we send to you, which will only get better over time. We send a huge range of questions, from reminiscing about why you fell in love to funny prompts like what’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done together. We even send spicy questions if you opt in! Agapé is designed to be fun.
What is relationship wellness?
Relationship wellness is the process of actively shifting your mindset, making choices, and pursuing activities to enrich your relationships.
A common misconception is that relationship wellness is best suited for couples who are experiencing some sort of dysfunction. But just like the gym isn't exclusive to individuals who are out of shape, relationship wellness should not be limited to couples who have relationship issues.
All couples should be actively practicing relationship wellness. Agapé makes that both easy AND fun.
Can I use Agapé without my partner?
Yes! Instead of receiving connect questions, where your responses are shared with your partner, you will receive reflect questions. Reflect questions give you personalized feedback once you respond and focus on self discovery and growth. You can sign up for this version here.
Can I use Agapé if I'm single?
Yes! In this version of Agapé you will receive reflect questions, which will send you personalized feedback once you respond. These questions will focus on self discovery and growth. You can sign up for this version here.
Is Agapé free?
Agapé is free to download and free to use. However, there are premium features that you can access with a subscription.
We offer a free trial of all premium features, with no credit card required. So trying Agapé is completely risk free!
Don't worry, Agapé is not one of those freemium apps that hides all their features behind a paywall. You can benefit from Agapé even if you can't afford to support us financially.
Is Agapé effective?
Agapé was developed using over 30 YEARS of relationship research. Our preliminary studies indicate that over 93% of couples see benefits from using Agapé. We are consistently measuring the effectiveness of our service, with the goal of helping couples both feel and show love.
Is Agapé a couples therapy app?
No. Agapé isn’t therapy. Couples therapy is focused on solving a problem. Agapé is focused on creating a fun way to spark meaningful conversation.
Often times that conversation makes you smile. Occasionally you may even cry tears of joy. And sometimes it even solves problems! But the primary goal is to create a fun way to spark meaningful conversation, which is fundamentally different than couples therapy.
How does Agapé keep my info safe?
Agapé values your privacy. Our app and web services use bank-level 128 bit encryption to securely transmit data between your device and our servers. Customer data stored in our databases is logically isolated and encrypted. To further keep your personal data safe, we employ extensive security measures to minimize access.
How do points and monthly giveaways work?
Our Point Based Rewards System is designed to encourage relationship strengthening behaviors. So the more you engage with Agapé the more points you earn.
Currently, you earn points for the length of your responses and how quickly you respond to the daily questions. You also get bonuses for how often you respond. For example, if you respond 7 days in a row that's an extra 10 points!
100 points can be redeemed as 1 entry into our monthly giveaways. The winner is randomly selected from the available entries.
No purchase necessary to win. A purchase will not improve your chances of winning. See terms and conditions for more details.
Who creates the questions?
All of our questions are vetted by our Chief Research Officer, Ronald Rogge PhD. Ron has been researching romantic relationships for over 20 years, currently serving as a professor of clinical psychology at the prestigious University of Rochester.
Please view his work here.
